THE "DASH" THAT REALLY MATTERS
by Sue Graber
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This weekend's message at church really touched my heart and soul and encouraged me to question the kind of life I am living; is it a FULL life or a FULFILLING life?
It's not a coincidence I'm sure that I was just thinking last night, wondering where I had put a book I purchased several months back called "One Month to Live." It's been on my "TO DO" list for a long time but somehow it just got pushed too far down the list.
Having been thinking about this book yesterday and then hearing the message today, with this book being the basis of our next Bible Study — led me to believe that Someone was trying to tell me that this needed to be pushed up to the top of my TO DO list.
Now, first of all, this is not meant to be a "MORBID" topic — let's face it, none of us really likes to dwell on the fact that we are going to die, but the reality is, we are all terminal. We were born and we will at some point physically die here on earth.
What this book is all about is how we live our life in between those two dates which is really our "DASH" –
- It's a wakeup call to help us question if what we are doing with our lives is really important; to help us DECLUTTER and remove the things that aren't important.
- It's about treasuring our relationships with loved ones and friends and living without regrets; It's about looking at each minute of every day as a treasured time to be everything God has intended us to be.
God is giving us just enough time (OUR DASH) here on earth to get the things done that He has intended for us to do. We can simply "exist" while we are here or we can live our lives to do what we were created to do, to live in a way that glorifies God and leads others to Him. Our life experiences are a great witness to others.
The question that comes up "What would you do if you had one month to live" is a great reminder that our relationships are more important than the things of this world. It causes us to ponder each day how we use the time that we have – Are we wasting it or investing it in others?
I'm excited and would love to have you come alongside me as I share what I'm learning from this study. I'm creating a special Facebook group as a way of inviting you to be a part of this journey. It will be a place where you can share your own thoughts, your struggles, and your concerns. We can all learn, encourage, support and grow together, learning how to be all that God has created us to be.
We were asked to invite others along so that you, too, can take time to ponder what you would be doing if you were told you have one month to live.
So thankful to Kerry and Chris Shook for writing this book. Click here to read a sample chapter.
Have you had a chance to read this book? What does "YOUR DASH" look like at this point in your life?
Would love to hear your comments below as to how you make each day count – living your life in such a way that there are no regrets.
If you'd like to be part of this journey of "Living the Dash" group, simply head on over to my FB page and post a message on my wall!
Sue Graber has been happily married for 34 years, raising 3 daughters while working creatively from home as an administrative assistant and a fund-raising specialist. She loves reaching out to others in kindness and is on a mission. She has an amazing ability to teach others how to build and nurture relationships, spend quality time with their families while generating income from home with a greeting card and gifting business. Sue is passionate about showing others how they, too, can make a difference every single day!








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I’m ALWAYS behind in housework and business related stuff, but I’m NEVER behind in the amount of hugs/kisses/cuddle time I do with my kiddos. If I had one month left to live—- I think I’d stop working completely and we’d all go on vacation together, no matter how tough it would be or how much money it would cost. Thanks for a great book idea— I hadn’t heard of this one!
You’re my kind of girl! Even though I don’t like to get behind anywhere, my releatinoships are always my priority! We’ll never regret making that choice! Thanks for stopping by!
Sue, enjoyed reading this article. Got me thinking…one month to live…I’d probably surround myself with the people that mean the most to me…go on vacation…and donate all my “stuff” to folks who would enjoy my ‘treasures’ and of course, find a wonderful home for my 2 little dogs.
VERY heartwarming and what a message each of us needs to hear. I am so thankful that I have a happy child and a messy home. You never know when it’s your last breath. I am going to get this book to read.
I have heard a sermon on “the dash”. Life is all about that – it’s about taking what time we are giving and living it to it’s fullest!
Absolutely… and in fact realizing we are all terminal. Kind of makes you be a little more thankful every day!
No question. One month to live, fun fun fun with my kids! Travel, hand out at home…you name it. Nothing work related. Period!
I meant hang out at home….:)
Sue, this is a very powerful article and I like the metaphor of the dash…sometimes we are just dashing through life aren’t we? Thanks for the reminder to take time for what is important….
Interesting article that motivates us to put things in perspective…live each day to the fullest! Thanks for sharing this!
Thank you for this article. I am such a ‘doer’ that I often forget to contemplate the zillion blessings already present in my life!
Spot on “our relationships are more important than the things of this world”…I try to live this way:)
Makes you think about what is really important in life. Thanks Sue!
Love the metaphor about the “Dash”. And by the way, this is really a great article. This article reminds you to take time to think about what is important. Thanks.
I hear about the dash alot – I may have needed a reminder… thanks and great job today!!
Thanks for stopping by! I need to be reminded daily!
Wow, great article Sue! I think I need to read the book. Lots to think about. Thanks for sharing.
My house is always a mess but my girls are always fed, loved, kissed and hugged and that’s all that matters to me! <3
You’ve got your priorities just right!!!! Love that!
Wonderful life lesson regarding “the DASH.” Thanks so much for sharing. Let’s make it count!
I dare admit that I turn 45 this week and I’m not all too excited about ti wither. But, as i’ve grown older, I’ve learned a lot about priorities and stil am ofr that matter. So my hope is the whatever length remains on my dash that I would live it with increasing authenticity and passion for the truly importnat elements of this precious gift of life!
Very poignant post, Sue. I am always striving to live my dash to the fullest!
What a wonderful article and powerful message! Thanks Sue!